Odpiram eno izobrazevalno temo tukaj, da ne smetimo po Evrovizijski 
Tole grafiko sem ze nekajkrat delila na forumu v preteklosti in se se kar vracam k njej (vsake toliko jo spet posodobijo, ampak za zacetek se mi zdi tale fajn pregledna):
Se mi zdi fajn, da nekako definiramo dolocene pojme, da se potem ne mesa jabolk in hrusk in ustvarja se vecje zmede.
Trenutno najbolj aktualna debata se je razvila okrog nebinarnosti (vrste spolne identitete) in izrazanja le-te.
Kaj je nebinarna oseba?
Tradicionalni spolni sistem pomeni binarno delitev na moške in ženske. Nebinarne osebe niso ne moški in ne ženske ali pa so kombinacija obojega. Lahko se identificirajo kot čisto tretji spol ali pa sploh ne verjamejo v spolni sistem.
Za lazji pregled/predstavo, lahko naredimo korak naza/visje in pogledamo se sirso definicijo, v katero se umesca nebinarnost:
Genderqueer: Genderqueer people typically reject notions of static categories of gender and embrace a fluidity of gender identity and often, though not always, sexual orientation. People who identify as "genderqueer" may see themselves as being both male and female, neither male nor female or as falling completely outside these categories.
Non-Binary (NB or enby): Anything that falls outside of the binary system (see definition above). Intersex, genderqueer, and bisexuality are all examples of non-binary identities.
Tole pa se nanasa na izrazanje identitete (prezentacija, oblacenje, vedenje, geste in specificne druzbene norme):
"Gender nonconforming” is a term given to people who don’t conform with the gender norms that are expected of them. For example, you might dress or act in a way that doesn’t conform to a gender binary.
The term usually refers to gender expression or presentation (that is, how someone looks and dresses). It can also refer to behavior, preferences, and roles that don’t conform to gender norms.
In other words, gender nonconforming can be used to describe people as well as actions, dress, and ideas.Being gender nonconforming doesn’t necessarily mean you’re transgender or nonbinary, although you could be both.We can define gender expectations as the roles, dress, behavior, and appearance society expects people of certain genders to have.For example, in one specific society, women might be expected to shave their legs and men might be expected to not show vulnerability.Most of us don’t fully conform to those gender expectations all of the time.For example, many women choose not to shave their legs, and many pursue careers over marriage and children. Many men show vulnerability and wear nail polish.Of course, because gender expectations differ from one society and culture to the next, what’s considered gender nonconforming in one culture might not be in another.("Is he gay or just European?")In many American cultures, these would be considered examples of gender nonconformity:A man might show emotion and tenderness.A woman might wear a suit on her wedding day instead of a dress.A man might wear eyeliner.A woman might pursue a career instead of marriage or motherhood.A man might shave under his armpits.A woman might be assertive.A man might be a stay-at-home dad.Gender nonconformity can look like wearing “men’s” instead of “women’s” clothing for some, but not for everyone. It could also look like wearing androgynous clothing.Gender nonconformity can extend to:hairstyles (a man having long hair or a woman shaving hers off, for example)makeup or a lack thereofgrooming practices
By the above standards, many folks are gender nonconforming — very few people conform fully to gender expectations. So, is everyone gender nonconforming? Does that label apply to everyone?Not necessarily. The term “gender nonconforming” is typically used to describe someone who intentionally subverts these gender norms. A part of their gender expression may be to dress, behave, or present themselves in a gender-nonconforming way.While some people feel that gender nonconformity is a part of their identity, for others, it’s more of a decision and an action than an identity.
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