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[Fluffy The Stud Eater]

 

 

(ful sem happy, ko me vrže na drugo stran)

[Fluffy The Stud Eater]

People do not like to think. If one thinks, one must reach conclusions. Conclusions are not always pleasant.
- Helen Keller

[Nincha]

[Fluffy The Stud Eater]

Humans are the only animals that have children on purpose with the exception of guppies, who like to eat theirs.
- P. J. O'Rourke

[Neytiri]

Izmed vseh oblik previdnosti je previdnost v ljubezni mogoče najbolj usodna za resnično srečo.
~ Bertrand Russel

[Fluffy The Stud Eater]

“When we love, we always strive to become better than we are.

When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”
― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

[luci]

Človek je človeku najhujša zver že od pamtiveka: živega pribija na križ, ga sežiga, natika na kol, odira, razčetverja, pohablja, posiljuje, zastruplja, razjeda, elektrificira, plinificira, obeša, obglavlja, strelja, razstreljuje, zabada in celo požira. Primerjati človeka z živaljo je največkrat nezaslišana žalitev za žival!

- prof. dr. Marko Pavliha

[Fluffy The Stud Eater]

Če umetniki hočejo imeti nagrade, naj sami vplačajo v nagradni sklad, ne pa da brez sramu sprejemajo od davkoplačevalcev naropan denar. (Mićo Mrkaić)

[Kinky]

Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.

~Andre Gide

[Fiona]

Dan je drugačen kot vsi

 

Dan je drugačen kot vsi,

veter v travah stoji,

daleč oblaki so šli.

 

dan je drugačen kot vsi,

saj ima rjave oči,

in se smeji mi kot ti.

 

dan je drugačen kot vsi,

sonce v zenitu gori,

dlan mi po tebi diši...

 

dan je drugačen kot vsi,

ptica nad nama leti,

še si želim tvojih dni

še si želim tvojih dni.

 

F. Lainšček

[Fiona]

“There’s a big difference, I discovered, between wanting to die and not wanting to live. When you want to die, you at least have a goal. When you don’t want to live, you’re really just empty.” —  Marilyn Manson

[Jinadaze]

“Having a low opinion of yourself is not 'modesty.' It's self-destruction. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not 'egotism.' It's a necessary precondition to happiness and success.”

― Bobbe Sommer
 

 

[Podgana]

“When I was young, I used to admire intelligent people; as i grow older, I admire kind people.”

— Abraham Joshua Heschel

 

 

 

 

[Kinky]

[Podgana]

[Anouk]

“Where, after all, do universal human rights begin? In small places, close to home – so close and so small that they cannot be seen on any maps of the world. Yet they are the world of the individual person; the neighbourhood he lives in; the school or college he attends; the factory, farm or office where he works. Such are the places where every man, woman and child seeks equal justice, equal opportunity, equal dignity without discrimination. Unless these rights have meaning there, they have little meaning anywhere. Without concerned citizen action to uphold them close to home, we shall look in vain for progress in the larger world.”

- Eleanor Roosevelt

[Fiona]

Nisem vedla kam naj tole dam, pa bom kar sem.

 

ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PERSON?

During a seminar, a woman asked, "How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: You do not determine who walks into your life. But it is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥

[Frčica]

Hm, tip hoče reči, da ostaneš s tipom, v katerega se zaljubiš, kljub temu, da se lahko kasneje izkaže, da pač karakterno ne gresta skupaj?

Razumem kaj misli s tem, da je zaljubljenost, ki se ti zgodi, pasivnost, ampak mi ej vztrajanje v zgrešenih zvezah tudi pasivnost.

Se pa strinjam z njim, da iskanje sreče v vedno novih razmerjih v veliki večini ne prinese zadovoljstva.

[Špela]

Česa vsega si folk ne bo zmislu, da upravičuje nesrečna/propadla/zgrešena razmerja. Edino, s čimer se strinjam, je to, da se odločiš, pa ne samo v primeru ljubezni, tudi v primeru zaljubljenosti.

[Jinadaze]

Se strinjam z obema.