(ful sem happy, ko me vrže na drugo stran)
Posted 07 February 2013 - 11:03 AM
(ful sem happy, ko me vrže na drugo stran)
Posted 11 February 2013 - 06:02 PM
People do not like to think. If one thinks, one must reach conclusions. Conclusions are not always pleasant.
- Helen Keller
Posted 15 February 2013 - 11:30 PM
After all this time?
Always.
Posted 17 February 2013 - 01:58 AM
Humans are the only animals that have children on purpose with the exception of guppies, who like to eat theirs.
- P. J. O'Rourke
Posted 28 February 2013 - 09:48 AM
Izmed vseh oblik previdnosti je previdnost v ljubezni mogoče najbolj usodna za resnično srečo.
~ Bertrand Russel
Posted 03 March 2013 - 05:56 PM
“When we love, we always strive to become better than we are.
When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”
― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
Posted 03 March 2013 - 09:29 PM
Človek je človeku najhujša zver že od pamtiveka: živega pribija na križ, ga sežiga, natika na kol, odira, razčetverja, pohablja, posiljuje, zastruplja, razjeda, elektrificira, plinificira, obeša, obglavlja, strelja, razstreljuje, zabada in celo požira. Primerjati človeka z živaljo je največkrat nezaslišana žalitev za žival!
- prof. dr. Marko Pavliha
Posted 10 March 2013 - 09:34 PM
Če umetniki hočejo imeti nagrade, naj sami vplačajo v nagradni sklad, ne pa da brez sramu sprejemajo od davkoplačevalcev naropan denar. (Mićo Mrkaić)
Posted 20 March 2013 - 07:56 AM
Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.
~Andre Gide
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When you open your mind to the impossible, sometimes you find the truth.
Posted 20 March 2013 - 08:13 PM
Dan je drugačen kot vsi
Dan je drugačen kot vsi,
veter v travah stoji,
daleč oblaki so šli.
dan je drugačen kot vsi,
saj ima rjave oči,
in se smeji mi kot ti.
dan je drugačen kot vsi,
sonce v zenitu gori,
dlan mi po tebi diši...
dan je drugačen kot vsi,
ptica nad nama leti,
še si želim tvojih dni
še si želim tvojih dni.
F. Lainšček
Posted 24 March 2013 - 03:03 PM
“There’s a big difference, I discovered, between wanting to die and not wanting to live. When you want to die, you at least have a goal. When you don’t want to live, you’re really just empty.” — Marilyn Manson
Posted 28 March 2013 - 10:18 PM
“Having a low opinion of yourself is not 'modesty.' It's self-destruction. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not 'egotism.' It's a necessary precondition to happiness and success.”
― Bobbe Sommer
Normality is a paved road: It's comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it.
― V. Van Gogh
Posted 02 April 2013 - 11:40 AM
“When I was young, I used to admire intelligent people; as i grow older, I admire kind people.”
— Abraham Joshua Heschel
Dear Leonard. To look life in the face, always, to look life in the face and to know it for what it is. At last to know it, to love it for what it is, and then, to put it away. Leonard, always the years between us, always the years. Always the love. Always the hours.
Posted 02 April 2013 - 11:50 AM
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When you open your mind to the impossible, sometimes you find the truth.
Posted 06 April 2013 - 09:17 AM
Dear Leonard. To look life in the face, always, to look life in the face and to know it for what it is. At last to know it, to love it for what it is, and then, to put it away. Leonard, always the years between us, always the years. Always the love. Always the hours.
Posted 06 April 2013 - 10:45 AM
“Where, after all, do universal human rights begin? In small places, close to home – so close and so small that they cannot be seen on any maps of the world. Yet they are the world of the individual person; the neighbourhood he lives in; the school or college he attends; the factory, farm or office where he works. Such are the places where every man, woman and child seeks equal justice, equal opportunity, equal dignity without discrimination. Unless these rights have meaning there, they have little meaning anywhere. Without concerned citizen action to uphold them close to home, we shall look in vain for progress in the larger world.”
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Posted 14 April 2013 - 07:51 AM
Nisem vedla kam naj tole dam, pa bom kar sem.
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PERSON?
During a seminar, a woman asked, "How do I know if I am with the right person?"
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: You do not determine who walks into your life. But it is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥
Posted 14 April 2013 - 12:35 PM
Hm, tip hoče reči, da ostaneš s tipom, v katerega se zaljubiš, kljub temu, da se lahko kasneje izkaže, da pač karakterno ne gresta skupaj?
Razumem kaj misli s tem, da je zaljubljenost, ki se ti zgodi, pasivnost, ampak mi ej vztrajanje v zgrešenih zvezah tudi pasivnost.
Se pa strinjam z njim, da iskanje sreče v vedno novih razmerjih v veliki večini ne prinese zadovoljstva.
Ljudje imajo radi, da jim kaj poveš, v pravih količinah, v skromnem, zaupnem tonu, in mislijo, da te poznajo, ampak te ne poznajo, poznajo podatke o tebi, dobijo samo dejstva, ne občutkov, ne, kaj si misliš o čemer koli, ne, kako si zaradi stvari, ki so se ti zgodile ali si se odločil zanje, tak, kot si. Vse, kar naredijo, je, da te napolnijo s svojimi občutki in mnenji in opažanji in ustvarijo novo življenje, ki ima s tvojim bolj malo zveze, in tako si varen. (Per Petterson: Konje krast)
Posted 14 April 2013 - 02:04 PM
Česa vsega si folk ne bo zmislu, da upravičuje nesrečna/propadla/zgrešena razmerja. Edino, s čimer se strinjam, je to, da se odločiš, pa ne samo v primeru ljubezni, tudi v primeru zaljubljenosti.
“… People are rivers, always ready to move from one state of being into another. It is not fair, to treat people as if they are finished beings. Everyone is always becoming and unbecoming.” (Kathleen Winter: Annabel.)
“Point of view is everything.“ (Kathleen Winter: Annabel.)
LIVE. LEARN.TRAVEL. LOVE.
Posted 14 April 2013 - 03:00 PM
Se strinjam z obema.
Normality is a paved road: It's comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it.
― V. Van Gogh
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